What is CFM’s Mission?
To promote Christ-centered marriage and family life; to help individuals and their families to live the Christian faith in everyday life; to improve society though actions of love, service, education, and example.
What makes CFM different from other small faith communities or study groups?
CFM is unique because it is peer ministry – lay men and women invite their friends to join them in a faith building and family enriching experience. The group does not require a parish staff facilitator, but clergy are welcome to participate. CFM involves the whole family. Adults plan ways to include their children in the actions and social events they organize at their monthly meetings. CFM members become part of a network of families all over the world who are living their faith in action. CFM teaches members to see themselves as a vital part of the Body of Christ, engaging them in the mission of Jesus.
The larger vision of CFM is the M part, the movement. CFM at its heart is reaching out to new people, not only staying as a devoted small group of friends. CFM does not necessarily have to be a long-term ongoing commitment. Instead, CFM can be a seasonal or time-limited experience of faith formation that connects families with others in their life-situations and teaches them how to Observe their lives and society, Judge how Christians should respond, and then put their faith into practice. New members can plug into a CFM group. They may be young parents, married couples, families with single parents, or grandparents: CFM has program materials that lend themselves to these kinds of groups. Experienced CFM members facilitate the formation of these new groups as a service to families. After a few years, CFM members who do not move into leadership roles go on to become active in other parish or community ministries. They are launched. Many, many people who are now active in ministry in the Catholic community – both lay and ordained -- got their start in a CFM experience.
St. Edna's CFM has a picnic every September to kick-off their new program year.
New families are always invited to join them.
What is CFM’s Spirituality?
CFM’s spirituality is the observe/judge/act technique, the "Jocist Method," first pioneered by Cardinal Joseph Cardijn, founder of the Young Christian Worker Movement in Belgium. Through the application of this method, many CFM families have become involved in helping others in such ministries as foster-parenting, prison ministry, refugee sponsorship, religious education and couple counseling.
What happens at a CFM meeting?
Members gather in each other’s homes, as frequently as weekly or once a month. Some groups meet at the parish. Beginning with prayer and reflection on the Scripture, they discuss topics of interest to people committed to Christian family life. Some groups meet as adults only; some bring their children along. To guide group discussion and action planning, CFM produces an annual Program Book. Each CFM Program is written from the lived experience of the members themselves, under the direction of professional Catholic family life ministers and educators. Themes for annual programs include parenting issues, Christian values, family spirituality, and social concerns. Depending on the group’s needs and interests, they have the option of selecting a Program title from CFM’s Program library. After each CFM meeting, the members enjoy social time and follow through on their discussion with some action, as individuals, as families, as groups, or in cooperation with a parish or community organization.
Is CFM just for Catholics?
CFM program materials are Catholic and are inclusive of interchurch families. Since meetings are held in the home environment, CFM is a comfortable setting for mixed faith couples to discover ways to express and act on the values they have in common. Children witness a unity of purpose in their parents. Each member is encouraged to deepen his or her relationship with God. The Christian Family Movement is a concrete expression of the family as "domestic church" in which members live their faith actively. The U.S. Catholic Bishops recommend CFM in "Follow the Way of Love, Called and Gifted for the Third Millennium", and other documents, as well as in their planning materials for their National Pastoral Initiative on Marriage. CFM is a member of the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers, NACFLM.
Do we have to join? Could we just buy the materials?
It is sometimes hard to understand the difference between CFM and the other types of Adult Faith Formation programs that are available. The best way to explain it is that CFM members are part of a larger worldwide organization rather than just purchasers of discussion guides. Since Christian Family Movement is a membership organization and not a publisher, we ask that people join our organization every year (similar to other organizations you might join every year). The discussion materials are provided as a benefit of membership, along with the bi-monthly ACT newsletter, monthly CFM News and the weekly Marriage Moments and Parenting Pointers emails (optional). That is why we ask members to complete the renewal form each year, so that we know who our members are and can send them our newsletter and other helpful information for their journey of faith.
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