- Choose your program & order a Starter Kit.
- Talk with your pastor about starting this small group ministry for marriage and family enrichment. Assure him that it won’t be extra work for him. The starter kit includes a flyer meant for you to share with your pastor.
- Invite a few couples you know or whom you keep running into after Mass to join you. Run a bulletin announcement to invite more couples. The starter kit includes a sample invitation letter and sample bulletin announcements.
- Start meeting regularly. We recommend meeting weekly or twice a month for the first four sessions to help new groups to bond. Our program guides make it easy for anyone to lead a meeting including prayer, scripture reflection, faith sharing and discussion questions on topics relevant to Christian families.
This 10-page book gives you all the details on Starting a CFM Group.
The CFM Starter Kit includes a variety of resources to help you start CFM at your parish. Each Starter Kit includes a 10-page booklet with all the details on Starting a CFM Group. With the purchase of a CFM Starter Kit ($40), you receive a one-year membership for four people/couples and four program books of your choice. The books you choose will depend on the makeup of the group you anticipate forming. You may contact us to help you with choosing a book or click here for a full list of available programs. You order your Starter Kit with your Membership Donation.
For example, for a group of young families, we may suggest using Wisdom & Grace for Marriage & Parenting, a 5-meeting digital meeting guide, or For Happier Families, an 8 meeting hardcopy guide. For a group with several empty-nest couples, we may suggest using Called to Wisdom, a 7-meeting digital guide, or The Grand Adventure, a 6 meeting digital guide.
The following flyers contain useful information about CFM:
Who wants to join CFM?
Any family who wants to grow in faith and find support in a community of Christian families will love CFM. Married couples of all ages, interfaith couples, single parents, step-families, empty nesters, and clergy are all welcome. Listed below are some ways that CFM can fit into the ministries that may already exist in your parish.
1. Ministry to Married Couples
Our Marriage: A Work in Progress is a four-meeting program designed for couples who want to strengthen and enrich their marriage. Topics include: making conversation a priority, taking time for your marriage, evaluating your money management and energizing your relationship.
2. Small Group Program for Lent
- For young parents: Wisdom & Grace for Marriage & Parenting is a five meeting resource designed for married couples that also addresses their vocation as parents.
- For empty nesters or grandparents: Called to Wisdom includes 7 meetings written for groups in the second half of family life. The Grand Adventure is a 6 meeting resource created in response to an observed need in today’s society to make better use of the grandparenting connection in family life.
3. Follow-up to existing program (RCIA, Renew, Baptism Preparation)
Many CFM Program books are excellent follow-ups to small group faith experiences such as RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) or Renew. Couples who have already formed a bond are looking for ways to continue to meet and share in each others’ journeys.
Couples approaching the church for baptism of their children may be looking for ways to get more involved in the parish. CFM offers a way for them to build a network of support as they raise their children in the faith.
CFM programs are provided as a benefit of membership in the movement.