- Choose your program & order a Starter Kit.
- You may view short videos describing CFM at this link. We have some videos especially addressed to your pastor.
- Talk with your pastor about starting this small group ministry for marriage and family enrichment. Assure him that it won’t be extra work for him. The starter kit includes a flyer meant for you to share with your pastor.
- Invite a few couples or single parents you know or whom you keep running into after Mass to join you. Run a bulletin announcement to invite more couples. The starter kit includes a sample invitation letter and sample bulletin announcements.
- Start meeting regularly. We recommend meeting weekly or twice a month for the first four sessions to help new groups to bond. Our program guides make it easy for anyone to facilitate a meeting, including prayer, scripture reflection, faith sharing, discussion questions, and action ideas on topics relevant to Christian families.
This 10-page book gives you all the details on Starting a CFM Group.
Sample Meeting / Try CFM
- Invite a few friends over to your house and experience a CFM meeting for yourselves.
- Next, download these easy-to-follow Meeting Directions.
- Now, download and make copies of this free sample meeting by clicking here: Make Conversation a Priority.
The CFM Starter Kit includes a variety of resources to help you start CFM at your parish. Each Starter Kit includes a 10-page booklet with all the details on Starting a CFM Group. With the purchase of a CFM Starter Kit ($40), you receive a one-year membership for four people/couples and four program books of your choice. For Happier Families, CFM's foundational book with 8 meetings, comes with the Starter Kit, or you can choose a different title. This book is inclusive of all kinds of families.
The books you choose will depend on the makeup of the group you anticipate forming. You may contact us to help you with choosing a book or click here for a full list of available programs. You order your Starter Kit with your Membership Donation.
Alternative starter books: For a group of married couples who are parents, we may suggest using Wisdom & Grace for Marriage & Parenting, a 5-meeting digital meeting guide. For a group with several empty-nest couples or singles, we may suggest using Called to Wisdom, a 7-meeting digital guide, or The Grand Adventure, a 6-meeting digital guide for a group of grandparents. For a group with a mix of single parents, different ages and stages of families, Works of Mercy or Meeting Jesus Changes Everything will work great.
The following flyers contain useful information about CFM:
Special Topics to Attract Various Audiences
Any family who wants to grow in faith and find support in a community of Christian families will love CFM. Married couples of all ages, interfaith couples, single parents, step-families, empty-nesters, and clergy are all welcome. Listed below are some ways that CFM can fit into the ministries that may already exist in your parish. Use any or all of the meetings in CFM program guides to gather people to experience CFM for themselves. They will love it!
1. Ministry to Married Couples
Our Marriage: A Work in Progress is a 4-meeting program designed for couples who want to strengthen and enrich their marriage. Topics include: making conversation a priority, taking time for your marriage, evaluating your money management and energizing your relationship.
Our Marriage: A Spiritual Journey is also a 4-meeting program for couples. Topics include the sacrament of marriage, spirituality of the couple, children and parents growing in faith together, and how your marriage is a service to the whole community.
2. Small Group Program for Lent
- For young parents: Wisdom & Grace for Marriage & Parenting is a 5-meeting resource designed for married couples that also addresses their vocation as parents.
- For empty nesters or grandparents: Called to Wisdom includes 7 meetings written for groups in the second half of family life. The Grand Adventure is a 6-meeting resource created in response to an observed need in today’s society to make better use of the grandparenting connection in family life.
3. Follow-up to existing program (RCIA, Renew, Baptism Preparation)
Many CFM Program books are excellent follow-ups to small group faith experiences such as RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) or Renew. Couples who have already formed a bond are looking for ways to continue to meet and share in each others’ journeys.
Couples approaching the church for baptism of their children may be looking for ways to get more involved in the parish. CFM offers a way for them to build a network of support as they raise their children in the faith.
Sample CFM Meeting for Parents in Baptism Preparation Classes
4. Write Your Own Meeting
Experienced CFM groups may want to try their hand at writing their own meeting, focusing on a particular experience or concern that your group has right now.
Practice applying the CFM method: Observe, Judge, Act.
Here are simple steps you can follow, using the meeting, "Seeing God's Face"
Contact firstname.lastname@example.org or visit the Program Books page for more detailed information on the CFM books. You order books when you Join/Renew. CFM programs are provided as a benefit of membership in the movement.